
I have been waiting for this book The Daring Book for Girls
, waiting and waiting. . . with excitement and loads of trepidation. A huge perk of writing a book is that I now get some books a wee bit early (I often beg) and it's like Christmas, I tell you! When it came today I almost couldn't open it. I had such high hopes, so high that there was no way it could live up to what I wanted it to be. This is the companion book, or girl's version, of The Dangerous Book for Boys, which I loved and had already written about. (Despite some gender issues I had with it.) Being a mom of 3 girls, and a woman who was a girl, and on top of that loving reference manuals, encyclopedias, facts, and lists so much, so much that it's what I base my mailorders around, I just knew I was going to be disappointed.
Okay. . . it is better than I could have ever imagined it to be. Honest to god, I just can't believe it. It has everything I would have killed for in a book when I was 10, and so much I want to learn/revisit now, I am sort of at a loss to describe how much is in it and how wonderful it is. Buy it, that is for sure, but more than that, read it. For now it's going to be more of a parenting idea manual because Sadie, at 5, is too young to read it, but the maps and old timey illustrations will serve her and her sisters well until they get older.
Pete and I have been geeking out all night reading about jump rope rhymes, hand clapping games, the elements of a good ghost story, camp songs, and re-learning first aid. It's that good.
Here's a bit of what is inside:
-Rules of the game: Basketball
-Palm Reading
-Four Square
-How to Change a Tire
-Playing cards: Hearts and Gin
-Weather
-Joan of Arc
-Explorers
-Words to Impress
-How to be a Spy
-Make your Own Paper
-Five Karate Moves
The list goes on and on and on. This is a fraction of what is included. No cloying, saccharine illustrations or copy here either. Straightforward no nonsense writing makes this a wonderful read. It's not a hand-holding pre-teen "you and your feelings" type book, it is a daring book, full of games, projects, activities, and adventure ideas with inspiration provided by women explorers, scientists, collective kid history, and the world at large.
The authors, Andrea J. Buchanan and Miriam Peskowitz have both published before, and although I haven't read any of their previous work, their writing expertise is loud and clear. It's perfectly edited--with enough info to actually be useful and informative without taking up too much space. This book is crammed full.
This book does not cover sewing, cooking, personal hygiene, friendship, crafts, or that sort of thing. The title speaks to what is in it. It can't include everything and definitely is for the tomboy. The friendship topic is the only one I miss. I think being a good
friend can be quite daring actually, and a list of common sense guidelines would have
been nice to see in this format.
I still would love both books to be called the Dangerous Book for Kids Vol 1 & 2, but I do see the value in separating gender for empowerment and all that. (I took plenty of women's studies courses in college and valued them greatly.) However, I think both of these books are equally important for all kids. Or, more precisely, I'd hate to think the titles will turn off kids (or the parents of kids) of the opposite genders. There's just too much fun to be had in these two books, it would be a shame for boys and girls to not fully enjoy both.